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Adapted from "Handbook for Women left" Step 1 ...


I confess that I did not expect ...

statement is typical of some women who are left.

This viewpoint is not entirely true, not until the end. You wonder why I say this? Well, now I will try to explain it through a series of considerations.

She has great intuition and great power of observation. E 'is able to catch (if you wish) even minor changes in the way people do. Moreover, it is designed to be a mother, where in its DNA there is a willingness to understand a human being beyond words. How else would you interpret the needs of a newborn baby when he is hungry, cold, bad for the tummy, etc..

I am aware of this innate feminine quality. That's why there is always some 'perplexed in listening to the customers who use phrases like: "It' s been a cold shower doctor, I did not expect that would leave me."

In short, believing that the woman (if you wish) can see and hear everything going on in his environment, I find it hard to think that can not understand in advance when the partner is preparing to leave?

Moreover, hardly a man changes his mind with respect to a report from day to day.

So, if we exclude some rare exceptions, there is usually an incubation period for the end of a story. This period will always show a series of signals.

• less attention;
• loss of interest in doing things together;
• decrease in sexual appetite;
• reduced to two exits, in favor of evenings with friends;
• sarcastic phrases thrown around by him;
• search most trivial pretexts for questioning, maybe even where to park your car;
• sudden onset or resumption of old hobby that undertake a lot 'of night of the week;
• moments longer and longer of silence in the car or at the restaurant (at least when you quit in the company of others).
• and what about when it begins to lose the jealousy? When, suddenly stops to make you the third degree on that link, on nights when you go out with friends, etc?

You know what I'm saying?

In hindsight, I have listed many of the behaviors that have occurred in your pair before you leave?

If the answer is "Quite a bit '" ... well then the signs were all right.

And here

return the same puzzle in place before:

why did not you grasp?

There are three possible reasons:

1) You're just in touch with your intuition, or you're in touch, but you do not trust what you send.

If you feel that this is The problem, from now on trying to fix it. Do not ever think that your feelings are wrong. Trust more in your belly. If you send some tension about a man, not just from the assumption that it is unfounded. Put in mind that your stomach may well be right. This does not mean that the first negative feeling you have to go into alarm.

Simply speak to your him.

If you do, there are two possible outcomes: either the actual problem will surface, or-in the case of a false concern-will melt.

2) You have not read the signs because they are too taken by an ideal projection that you have made of this man. During the story you continued to live like a movie, losing sight of what really happened couple, day after day.

If this is your tendency, from now on trying to develop a greater sense of realism.

child abandons this vision that drives you to love a character, rather than a person.

3) Fear of suffering and facing a possible crisis has prompted you to do as the ostrich that puts its head in the ground. Did not you see why you did not want see.

Surely you have noticed something, but you have carefully avoided further, perhaps believing that they were mere paranoia.

If you think you've made the ostrich , you find the courage to be honest with yourself. no longer pretend that problems do not exist. Do not expect it to work alone. Because in this way only magnify the risks.

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